Baby Talk - Is your child the only one wearing a mask?

If your child is one of the few who is wearing a mask in school, here are a few encouraging tips.

• Admit to your child that it may be hard and have that conversation. Acknowledge that people have different opinions about mask wearing and there may be some social pressure to wear or not wear a mask in school.

• Have a conversation with your child about the reasons for wearing a mask. Keep the conversation age-appropriate and positive, indicating we wear masks to keep each other safe. Point out that wearing a mask is something our family does to get ready each morning, just like brushing our teeth and combing our hair. Best to not criticize parents who are making different mask wearing decisions in front of your child.

• Prepare your child for uncomfortable questions or even ridicule. Although no one ever wants this to happen, if your child has a coping plan, it may reduce her/his anxiety. Just a simple response, such as “this works for me,” is appropriate. Check in with your child periodically, recognizing that any concerns s/he may have are truly meaningful and need to be discussed.

• A reward can go a long way. Whatever you decide is appropriate, based on your child, will reinforce good behavior. Consider praise, a treat, time together…whatever work for your family.

How have you been helping your child adjust to wearing a mask? Please, share.